Sometimes I feel (like 含有推测的意思) I don't have (a)sense of humor when I'm with some "friends". Days ago I had lunch with some friends. They laughed, I didn't know why; they became excited, I didn't know why. Ridiculously (enough), sometimes I felt it(something) was funny when everyone else didn't...
I don't understand(,) because I can't—_—. But sometimes it is not the problems whether I understand or not(sometimes the problem is not whether I understand or not 好一点，否则的话主语变problems), but (that there are)some topics that I don't like at all. And I think some friends of mine look(act) like silly teenagers when talking about some stupid topics, (sometimes) I even doubt (that=delete) how they got enrolled to(in) a university (level=delete).
Am I too strict? Is it bad (manner=delete) of me (不可以说manners is..., 可以说 Am I displaying bad manners, 但是没必要用manners在这里)? But I try to show respect by behaviour(respectful behaviour) (even) when I don't understand what they talk about. Are they just simply silly or it is my lack of respect to people (from deep in my heart=delete)?
I don't think I did anything wrong because I didn't point at a person and say "you are silly." I confuse myself only when I spend time with (the) wrong people. Try to stay with the people who can understand you and whom you like, and the most important thing is that both of you and your friends will become mature, and wisdom will be the present you give to each other. (这个语言没有什么错误，不过有一点中文感觉。。一般我们可以说and we can learn together, learn from each other，这种语言有一点太fluffy) :-)
But still, I perceive(think) that it is hard to judge whether a person is lack of respect to people or not(lacking respect to people/showing a lack of respect to people), and whether (or not) some people do things (")wrong(") when it comes to values and hobbies.
Very important topic, and I think related to a lecture I went to, where the speaker said that it is a good idea to make lists of the people who give you energy and the people who drain your energy - and then spend more time with the ones who give you energy and less times with the ones who drain it!
ReplyDeleteIf you are not getting anything out of spending time with these people, then you should prioritize friends who make you feel good about yourself, who you feel are interesting and listen to you.