Last time one of
my most respect person the people I respect most told me: money is not evil. I don't remember the reason
that why he said so. It could be something related
to the fact that nowadays people are so eager
for making to make money without any considerations.
I agree with his
viewpoint(one word). Money is an object, it could be
whatever anything would be more colloquial in written language depending on its owner. We are money
's master/
we are money masters and money could have human
nature characteristics.
My sense about money is originally from my parents, I'm also curious
as to how it is
like (how it is/what it is like) in other culture
s. It might be funny to you that my father says that if you can
well spend money
well, you will
well make money
well; however, my mother holds a different view, which is bit opposite to my father's. She thinks that a family should try its best to save money for important
things and emergency use, and she does
so. She was critical
on of my spending habit
s when I was a little girl, because I liked to buy some little things that you don't know where
you to put
them up after buying; though sometimes I think my mother is speaking of herself.....
I
get got to understand my mother
as while growing up. Like most Chinese parents, they save money for their children's education. My parents are not rich so they
have had to plan carefully for the family. I also realize
d that my father's words
were not encouraging me to spend money, he just want
ed me to have a happy childhood. Thus I always bear in mind
that to buy what is in need to buy only what is necessary
for so as not to burden my family as long as I have not officially started making money; when I get a job I'll start
to support supporting my parents as well.
Basically I think savings
is are necessary for everyone, and it is better to save money yourself for
your future life, people should not be forced
to be included in the pension system, but taxation can offer help to those who cannot work and support themselves.
I agree that we get our idea about money from our parents. And it is sad to see some parents having no clue what they are doing and perpetuating a circle of spending without earning any money (credit cards, borrowing money from the bank for buying clothes or going on holiday, etc).
ReplyDeleteMy dad was more like your mum - don't spend if you don't need to! That's why our house is so small and we don't have a fancy flat screen TV or change any appliances if they're not broken. We always had good food, and I always had a happy childhood. My mum is more interested in buying clothes often ;-) But she is not frivolous by any standards.
I think that the "western" idea of a retired age and the "asian" idea are quite different. Most of my Asian friends are planning on staying in Asia to support their parents, or at least send them money in their old age. I wasn't raised that way, and I can see if it seems strange and cold to some people, but I have never expected to support my parents. They pay via taxes to the pension system, and they pay their own private pension through their wages, and it is never something that I have worried about. I sometimes feel a bit bad about it, but my parents don't expect anything from me, and it would actually be a bit strange if I started sending them money after I started working.
If ever they are unable to take care of themselves, and I can help, of course I will be there for them. But I do think there are great advantages in a pension system too :-)